i believe that too much of a good thing can be wonderful and that one's style should prove it. i live, love, and dress accordingly.

8.12.2011

sex appeal.

cat claw mini gold ring for luxury scratching at betonyvernon.com

you're thinking of me naked right now, aren't you? 
tassel earring [custom] from dallas maynard jewelry


it all started with a 15-inch dallas maynard tassel earring that hits breast-length--infamously known as my nipple-tassel earring--that sparked an inner craze for sexually-subliminal jewelry {see also: erotic jewelry}. and when delfina delettrez joined the party [more on her later, i promise]--i was done for. i believe they're more powerful than pheromones and you're not changing my mind.

delfina delettrez 'orgy' ring at opening ceremony nyc.

mostly i'm hooked on the blatant irony of it all. [of course you're looking at my boob i have a gold tassel hanging from it!] and not in a rihanna ripping off david lachapelle sort of way either. rather an 'i can mock, subvert, own, or play with my sexuality without uttering a word' (pun intended. obvs) sort of way.  and although if you don't know what you're doing-- it can teeter on tasteless--with a little education and moderation--it can be a whole lot of, um, fun! [ohcomeongetyourmindoutofthegutterxx]

sado chic cuff with ball-and-ring for 'attachments' at betonyvernon.com

besides capitalizing off of sex is nothing new [strippers and dov charney do it everyday!] why not have some fashionable agency in it. no?

tassel ring with miniature whip at betonyvernon.com

these baubles are such a tease.

xx
caroline

8.10.2011

the perfect fall wedges.


i'm 5'9. and as a fashionist. that makes it incredibly difficult to wear the shoes i adore without feeling a tad amazonian. additionally. unless i plan on wearing a spare and switching into heels outside of my destination---streetwalking in heels will only get me so far (pun intended. obvs). lucky for me wedges have been all the rage for the past few seasons and are ALL OVER the PLACE!  and they really are the perfect balance of heel and comfort.

these chelsea crew unions are my new favorite pair. not unlike the mary roks that are selling out everywhere--these platforms will save you a third of the price PLUS have more blatant cut-outs---making them PERFECT to wear with tights or bobby socks or skinnys or leggings or bare or wellyougetthepicture. more importantly they are chic and structured enough to wear during the day (assuming you work at fashion-forward and/or creative environment and/or anywhere below 72nd street in manhattan) AND transition effortlessly to night. plus. despite their nearly 5" platform..i can still walk. FAR. and look great doing it.


amazonian. maybe. but still great.

xx
caroline

obsessed: the evelyn lozada edition



the EARRINGS! the louboutins (that i thought only existed in the deepest, craziest, most gaudy and glamorous part of my brain! [liberace is there, too])!! the temper. the herve legerthe bitch-please-boo-boo-get-yo-hand-out-of-my-face shit. i LOVE it. i only get style crushes on the most unabashedly-loose-of-women and evelyn lozada is the current object of my adoration. miami hot with the kind of gutter-street-attitude others can only pretend to possess---she is basically the ride-or-die-girl of my dreams.





and although i don't really do butterflies or ochocinco. . .go BIG or go home is the only language i speak. and those earrings are BIG. so big in fact, that i have already decided on two pairs i'm going to need STAT from her miami store (except i'll only wear one earring at a time--like a subversive edie sedgwick). 



i am so into her aesthetic. and so into her lifestyle.






xx
caroline

8.09.2011

my armor. pt. I: statement necklaces. xx


ok. so i will be the first person to tell you that i am an accessories junkie--and quite snobby about it at that! i think jewelry should be thoughtful, demonstrative, and always make a statement. more is always more [but it has to suggest something about yourself or else it just fails, very tackily.] honestly, i'm only ever a less-is-more-gal in the sense that i think it's wayyyyy more important to invest in a handful of signature accessory pieces than to blow through disposable pieces that say nothing other than *TREND*. because my earrings are by far the most sought-after and stopped-about pieces i own (a lot more on those to come, i promise) i thought it would be easiest to break down my philosophy on accessories categorically. [more importantly it prevents me from ranting for paragraphs about how great dallas maynard's jewelry is without talking about the other options out there--although it really is the best]. xx


so when it comes to necklaces i follow a more of a baller strategy--have one or two meaningful neck pieces that are worn frequently enough to become your very own signature piece (one that people who admire your style will want to emulate)! just like your clothes, shoes, dog, job, favorite book, or whatever-have-you should say SOMETHING about YOU--so should your accessories. . . no?!

i honestly have 3 necklaces that i've had for years that i alternate depending on my mood and outfit--and there's no doubt they've become synonymous with my style:

1. betsey johnson peacock feather and chain necklace:


*betsey makes wonderful and affordable statement pieces that can turn a white t-shirt into coveted look if you find the right piece for you. because i have a little thing for peacock feathers and tend to be a little BOLD in nature--my HUGE peacock necklace is always the first go-to piece for adding color to black or otherwise boring earth-tones. it's really become my very own jesus piece. to be cautious of looking too costume-y with pieces like this, one should be careful with mixing prints and colors--beginners should think about wearing louder pieces with a more subdued ensemble. that way you let the necklace be the focal point of your less frivolous clothing--an easy way to revamp your closet with one piece of jewelry!



2. the $6 H&M chanel knock-off birdcage necklace in gold:


* there are no words for how much i love this delicate but bold lil piece. aside from the fact that it cost less than a cocktail (a cocktail below 96th street, that is), it's fragile enough to be worn with patterns and bright colors but interesting enough to get dozens of "OMG where did you get that? OMG its so unique and OMG does the cage door open? OMG it does!" the statement for me comes with personal touches (i keep a very special note from one of my dearest friends inside of it) and the fact that such an interesting piece still won't overshadow whatever i'm wearing. LUCKY FOR ALL OF US: the success and price of the chanel version has meant tons of affordable knock- offs. thank god because no one believes me when i say mine was cheaper than my subway commute to bronxville for class. 



3. pearls, pearls, pearls! 


*whats more chic, classy, old-money, decadent, and bold than a couple strands of pearls layered (except for maybe joan rivers)?!? i bought a bunch from a street vendor in the bronx for a WHOLE DOLLAR and layer them with an amazing vintage piece my boyfriend's amazing mother gave me (they were her mother's <3). i like wearing mine to swanky events to almost mock the elegance and expense that real pearls represent today. they're so subversive!  and they're everywhere! and cheap!! and i MUST say that when it comes to pearls--the more you pile on, the more i want to be just like you.




xx
caroline

8.08.2011

oh, that adorable thing? that's just my graduate school application.


since a lot of my friends have been asking for help during the graduate school application process-- i thought i'd share the most attractive advice i knew to give!

although i worked super hard on my personal statement and essays for my sarah lawrence application (it's the only school i wanted so it's the only one i applied to <3), i recognized the limitations of a written page for exemplifying my fierceness. the vintage ribbon and lace and peacock feather (tons more of those to come, i promise) were the perfect way to showcase my personal style while literally separating myself from the blasé black and white bunch. [and doesn't it look like a gift you just can't wait to open?!]

xx
caroline

the perfect sandal for the girl who hates how boring and tacky most sandals are.







ok. there are few things i find more tricky and restrictive than summer footwear for the city gal (see also: jeans, but we'll get to those some other time, i promise). for a woman-on-the-loose like myself, wearing what best suits my personality doesn't always best suit walking to the subway (the mcqueen armadillo heels anyone?). fall and winter boots and wedges offer comfortable and stylized options for wandering the concrete jungle, but for summer balancing eccentricity and practicality can be a lot more tricky (they're more comfy than they look, i swear). the same goes for sandals, which are homely by their very nature of bare-footed-ness. so a glamazon like myself is left with searching for something, um, a little more FLASHY for her gams without running the risk of being bejeweled to tacky oblivion.


my solution to a comfortable, light, but glamorous and affordable sandal: (i know you thought affordable,  glamorous sandal was an oxymoron, didn't you?) these cynthia rowley for roxy "sea urchin sandals" that i scored at her bucktown boutique for a cool 80 bucks). with the spunk of a dallas cheerleader's pom-pom and the decadence of the crushed velvet curtain ties at her grandparent's mansion, they're comfortable enough to walk soho in the heat but stylish enough to be caught wearing in soho. you digz? i love them. the sold out completely of the s/s collection last season so keep your eye on the prize and your fingers-crossed. (or go buy the biggest curtain tie back you can find and make your own...no?)





xx
caroline


welcome to my world.

hello bitties! i have decided to join the 21st century and get a blog--but not just any blog--this is my blog and i will do as i see fit with it. translation: i'm going to post about the things that matter to me and subsequently, seem to matter to those who absolutely adore me. there will be lots of fashion (high and low), pop culture musings, music snobbery, and feminism--because that's who i am. [me being a graduate student at sarah lawrence college in women's history, studying historical fashion (especially Dior after WWII)]! i am also a known fashion-addict (i ran an amazing store for two years in chicago's wicker park) and girl-let-loose in new york city (i have the stories and pictures to prove it, i promise). i believe that too much of a good thing can be wonderful (more mae west to come!) and live, love, and dress accordingly. or, as sandra cisneros would say:


I'm an aim-well
shoot-sharp,
sharp-tongued,
sharp-thinking,
fast-speaking,
foot-loose,
loose-tongued,
let-loose,
woman-on-the-loose


loose woman
Beware, honey.


xx
Caroline